It’s a refrain often heard from the newly anointed stepmoms in the ranks…”I don’t have a life. All I do is take care of the kids.” Yeah. Being a new stepmom, especially one who does not have children of her own can, can be daunting. All of a sudden you have a ready made family. And that family needs you. Whether it be as a cook, chauffeur, listening ear, mediator or any number of the roles associated with a caregiver. But it’s not only the child free stepmom who reminisces ab